Is Oral Communication Really All That Important?
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Yes, because oral communication is arguably the most frequently used literary mode of communication. We do a lot of listening and speaking for the majority of our daily lives. This does not end in social contexts, because we also do a fair bit of talking directly to ourselves, in our heads! For example, we do this when we organize our thoughts before and as we write and of course we also use that little voice in our head when we silently read. We also constantly take in stimuli from our environment, as the listening gates of our ears always remain open. Additionally, we sometimes passively capture various sounds and we can also activate our best listening skills when we really need to.
How to Strengthen Our Speaking and Listening Skills
I believe that in order to be able to read, write and critically evaluate media literacy, effective oral communication abilities should be developed. By doing so, the little voice in our head can help us to better organize our thoughts when writing them out on paper, read effectively and undoubtedly communicate well orally by listening and speaking. A great resource to highlight this is the Government of Canada's "Oral Communication Tip Sheet". There are various tips and exercises recommended for strengthening oral communication skills. Below are some tips that can help readers get started:
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| Government of Canada (2015, September 09). Tips for Oral Communication [Image]. Retrieved from http://bit.ly/2hDVpmc |
Implications For a Sound Literacy Foundation
Students can benefit their literacy learning by practicing their oral communication skills. To do this, they should be aware of and have opportunities to involve themselves in situations that can challenge aspects of their oral communication skills. In this blog, I will discuss a few of the many situations involving both speaking and listening that can help strengthen the students' skills. Specifically, I will discuss how important it is for students to understand how to participate in and achieve cordial discussions of their disagreements between one another. Lastly, I will discuss how using structured debates in classes can help put those proper disagreement skills into real-life contexts.
Learning How to Disagree with Dignity
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Disagreements can get ugly. Especially when they are concerned with touchy and personal topics. I would like to direct your attention to this hilarious clip from the popular 90s sitcom Friends. Here, Ross and Phoebe seem to be at their wit's end due to the fact that Phoebe does not believe in the theory of evolution. This is a particularly personal subject for Ross because he happens to practice Paleontology for a living. Take a look and see what not to do when having an argument!
Did you notice the bad examples? There were rude facial and body language gestures at times and also impolite comments like, "how can you not believe in evolution?" and "why do you have an obsessive need for everyone to agree with you?". There is an excellent podcast that Ross and Phoebe might have benefited from in their situation and it is titled, “How to Tactfully Disagree with Someone”. The podcast was created by Lisa B. Marshall and she informs listeners about the practical tips that influence effective communication. Marshall talks about how we can have respectful and cautious conversations that address differing points of view. Examples to use are, “can you tell me why you think that way?” instead of, “you make no sense” or, “help me to understand your point” instead of, “I totally disagree with you”. This aligns with the Ontario Language Curriculum that states oral communication generally, “…focuses on the identification and development of the skills and strategies effective listeners and speakers use to understand and interact with others”. Helping junior and intermediate students practice these valuable tips in real-life contexts can be done through debating.
Applying Tips on How to Disagree with Dignity to Civilized Debating in a Classroom
In the article "Debate: Where Speaking and Listening Come First" by Dee Burek and Carol Losos, the authors discuss the many advantages of structured class debates in middle school classrooms. They argue that debates promote critical thinking and research skills as students gather evidence to support their arguments against each other on various hot topics. More importantly, debates help improve both listening and speaking skills because they foster advanced modes and opportunities for self-expression. The curriculum also states that, "[students] become aware of the many purposes for which language is used and the diverse forms it can take to appropriately serve particular purposes and audiences. They learn to use the formal language appropriate for debates...". Using the tips from Marshall's podcast can really help students begin debates with a virtuous foundation when arguing. These skills are also absolutely transferable to other aspects of students' lives both inside and outside of the classroom!
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| Differencebetween.info (2017). Debating [Graphic]. Retrieved from http://bit.ly/2zSABSk |
In the article "Debate: Where Speaking and Listening Come First" by Dee Burek and Carol Losos, the authors discuss the many advantages of structured class debates in middle school classrooms. They argue that debates promote critical thinking and research skills as students gather evidence to support their arguments against each other on various hot topics. More importantly, debates help improve both listening and speaking skills because they foster advanced modes and opportunities for self-expression. The curriculum also states that, "[students] become aware of the many purposes for which language is used and the diverse forms it can take to appropriately serve particular purposes and audiences. They learn to use the formal language appropriate for debates...". Using the tips from Marshall's podcast can really help students begin debates with a virtuous foundation when arguing. These skills are also absolutely transferable to other aspects of students' lives both inside and outside of the classroom!










